{"id":828,"date":"2025-12-05T10:52:17","date_gmt":"2025-12-05T03:52:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/?p=828"},"modified":"2026-01-28T10:56:12","modified_gmt":"2026-01-28T03:56:12","slug":"tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o b\u1ebf t\u1eafc, khi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh: N\u00f3i th\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng nghe, nh\u1eafc th\u00ec con l\u1edd \u0111i, la th\u00ec con ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, im l\u1eb7ng th\u00ec con l\u00e0m lo\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi trong m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi: <strong>\u201cV\u00ec sao con m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 nghe h\u01a1n, m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u00edt cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n: <strong>\u201cM\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 con nghe l\u1eddi ch\u01b0a?\u201d <\/strong>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, m\u00e0 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00ec <strong>c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n \u0111ang d\u1eabn d\u1eaft con<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/nodwJNh8GkY?si=IUv0bd8UZujYH9GH\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_81 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">N\u1ed9i Dung<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#1_Tai_sao_con_khong_nghe_loi\" >1. T\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#2_Sai_lam_pho_bien_khi_day_tre_buong_binh_Dung_%E2%80%9Cnoi%E2%80%9D_thay_cho_%E2%80%9Cdan_dat%E2%80%9D\" >2. Sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn khi d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh: D\u00f9ng \u201cn\u00f3i\u201d thay cho \u201cd\u1eabn d\u1eaft\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#3_Goc_re_cua_hanh_vi_%E2%80%9Ckhong_nghe_loi%E2%80%9D_Con_khong_can_diem_cao_con_can_duoc_ghi_nhan\" >3. G\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi \u201ckh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi\u201d: Con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec3m cao, con c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#4_Hieu_5_cap_do_cha_me_de_co_phuong_phap_nuoi_day_con_hieu_qua\" >4. Hi\u1ec3u 5 c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#41_Cap_do_1_Cha_me_trung_binh_%E2%80%93_chi_biet_noi_va_nhac\" >4.1. C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 1: Cha m\u1eb9 trung b\u00ecnh \u2013 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#42_Cap_do_2_Cha_me_gioi_%E2%80%93_biet_giai_thich_%E2%80%9CTAI_SAO%E2%80%9D\" >4.2. C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 2: Cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1ecfi \u2013 bi\u1ebft gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u201cT\u1ea0I SAO\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#43_Cap_do_3_Cha_me_vi_dai_%E2%80%93_gieo_niem_tin_%E2%80%9CCON_LAM_DUOC%E2%80%9D\" >4.3. C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 3: Cha m\u1eb9 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i \u2013 gieo ni\u1ec1m tin \u201cCON L\u00c0M \u0110\u01af\u1ee2C\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#44_Cap_do_4_Cha_me_xuat_chung_day_con_chiu_trach_nhiem\" >4.4. C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 4: Cha m\u1eb9 xu\u1ea5t ch\u00fang, d\u1ea1y con ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi\/#5_Muon_con_nghe_loi_dung_bat_dau_tu_con_Hay_bat_dau_tu_cha_me\" >5. Mu\u1ed1n con nghe l\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb con. H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Tai_sao_con_khong_nghe_loi\"><\/span>1. T\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<blockquote><p>Tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec con h\u01b0, m\u00e0 v\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn: <strong>Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo v\u00ec b\u1ecb n\u00f3i. Tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m theo khi c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh. <\/strong>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y: \u1ede nh\u00e0, b\u1ea1n nh\u1eafc con h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3 bu\u1ed5i, con ng\u1ed3i \u00ec ra. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m, gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u00fang l\u00fd do, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch\u2026con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m xong vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t nhanh. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n, m\u00e0 cho th\u1ea5y: <strong>con \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i<\/strong>, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_830\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-830\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-830\" src=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi.jpg\" alt=\"Cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c khi th\u1ea5y con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi.jpg 800w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi-533x400.jpg 533w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-830\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c khi th\u1ea5y con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Sai_lam_pho_bien_khi_day_tre_buong_binh_Dung_%E2%80%9Cnoi%E2%80%9D_thay_cho_%E2%80%9Cdan_dat%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>2. Sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn khi d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh: D\u00f9ng \u201cn\u00f3i\u201d thay cho \u201cd\u1eabn d\u1eaft\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u00f4 th\u1ee9c quen thu\u1ed9c:\u201cH\u1ecdc \u0111i! L\u00e0m \u0111i! Nhanh l\u00ean! Sao n\u00f3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng nghe?\u201d V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf c\u00e2u n\u00f3i. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7: <strong>Con kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao con c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m<\/strong>. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd: Ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, l\u00e0m cho c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c l\u1edd \u0111i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. <strong>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec con l\u00ec, m\u00e0 v\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Goc_re_cua_hanh_vi_%E2%80%9Ckhong_nghe_loi%E2%80%9D_Con_khong_can_diem_cao_con_can_duoc_ghi_nhan\"><\/span>3. G\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi \u201ckh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi\u201d: Con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec3m cao, con c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 tin r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao.\u201d, nh\u01b0ng g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb <strong>kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Con c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. Khi con kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u201cc\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb\u201d, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t, con s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch: G\u00e2y chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, thu m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m. <strong>N\u00ean tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Hieu_5_cap_do_cha_me_de_co_phuong_phap_nuoi_day_con_hieu_qua\"><\/span>4. Hi\u1ec3u 5 c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Mu\u1ed1n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i <strong>m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o<\/strong> trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n<p><strong>C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 0: Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i<\/strong> &#8211; th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3 r\u00e1c l\u00ean con: so s\u00e1nh, ch\u00ea bai, ch\u00ec chi\u1ebft con.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"41_Cap_do_1_Cha_me_trung_binh_%E2%80%93_chi_biet_noi_va_nhac\"><\/span>4.1. C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 1: Cha m\u1eb9 trung b\u00ecnh \u2013 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t. Cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u1eafc nhi\u1ec1u, ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u00fang \u2013 sai. Nh\u01b0ng <strong>kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/strong> v\u00ec sao con c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m, l\u00e0m th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m th\u00ec h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3: Con ch\u1ec9 nghe khi s\u1ee3, h\u1ebft s\u1ee3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_829\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-829\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-829\" src=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi-1.jpg\" alt=\"Cha m\u1eb9 trung b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i n\u00f3i n\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u.\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi-1-533x400.jpg 533w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Tai-sao-con-khong-nghe-loi-1-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-829\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Cha m\u1eb9 trung b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i n\u00f3i n\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"42_Cap_do_2_Cha_me_gioi_%E2%80%93_biet_giai_thich_%E2%80%9CTAI_SAO%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>4.2. C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 2: Cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1ecfi \u2013 bi\u1ebft gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u201cT\u1ea0I SAO\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng th\u01b0\u1eddng hay h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u x\u1ea5u, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u <strong>tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1u khi con h\u1ecfi, bi\u1ebft gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn, \u0111\u00fang tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m, k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c con l\u00e0m v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u con mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>H\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec?<\/li>\n<li>\u0110\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec?<\/li>\n<li>L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y gi\u00fap con m\u1ea1nh l\u00ean \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u00fd do, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3m r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"43_Cap_do_3_Cha_me_vi_dai_%E2%80%93_gieo_niem_tin_%E2%80%9CCON_LAM_DUOC%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>4.3. C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 3: Cha m\u1eb9 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i \u2013 gieo ni\u1ec1m tin \u201cCON L\u00c0M \u0110\u01af\u1ee2C\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec l\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 v\u00ec <strong>kh\u00f4ng tin m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/strong>. Cha m\u1eb9 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u00fac \u00e9p, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m thay, kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafng khi con ch\u1eadm<br \/>\nThay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 chia nh\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c, ghi nh\u1eadn n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac. Khi con tin \u201ccon l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d, con s\u1ebd ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n, \u00edt ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i h\u01a1n, h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"44_Cap_do_4_Cha_me_xuat_chung_day_con_chiu_trach_nhiem\"><\/span>4.4. C\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 4: Cha m\u1eb9 xu\u1ea5t ch\u00fang, d\u1ea1y con ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Cha m\u1eb9 xu\u1ea5t ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i con nghe l\u1eddi, m\u00e0 h\u1ecd nu\u00f4i con <strong>bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong>. Gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng: L\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ea1o ra k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ea1o ra h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3. Con l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<br \/>\nKhi \u0111\u00f3, con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ecb \u00e9p. Con h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u00ec <strong>con hi\u1ec3u \u2013 con ch\u1ecdn \u2013 con ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Muon_con_nghe_loi_dung_bat_dau_tu_con_Hay_bat_dau_tu_cha_me\"><\/span>5. Mu\u1ed1n con nghe l\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb con. H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec con b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn \u201ccon h\u01b0\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>M\u00ecnh \u0111ang d\u1eabn d\u1eaft con b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o?<\/li>\n<li>M\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i cho \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1ee9c, hay \u0111ang t\u1ea1o l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 con h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c?<\/li>\n<li>M\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u00e1p nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, hay \u0111ang ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o nhu c\u1ea7u th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a con? <strong>Khi cha m\u1eb9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9, con s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 kh\u1eafc thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec con s\u1ee3, m\u00e0 v\u00ec con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1eabn d\u1eaft \u0111\u00fang. N\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5, t\u1ea1o l\u00fd do thay v\u00ec \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c. Khi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ec9nh \u2013 \u0111\u1ee7 hi\u1ec3u \u2013 \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, con s\u1ebd nghe l\u1eddi <strong>m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n<\/strong>, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"kk-star-ratings kksr-auto kksr-align-right kksr-valign-bottom\"\n    data-payload='{&quot;align&quot;:&quot;right&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:&quot;828&quot;,&quot;slug&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;valign&quot;:&quot;bottom&quot;,&quot;ignore&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;reference&quot;:&quot;auto&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;count&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;legendonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;readonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;score&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;starsonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;best&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;gap&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;greet&quot;:&quot;Rate this post&quot;,&quot;legend&quot;:&quot;5\\\/5 - (1 b\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn)&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;24&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi&quot;,&quot;width&quot;:&quot;142.5&quot;,&quot;_legend&quot;:&quot;{score}\\\/{best} - ({count} {votes})&quot;,&quot;font_factor&quot;:&quot;1.25&quot;}'>\n            \n<div class=\"kksr-stars\">\n    \n<div class=\"kksr-stars-inactive\">\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"1\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"2\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"3\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"4\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"5\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n    \n<div class=\"kksr-stars-active\" style=\"width: 142.5px;\">\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n                \n\n<div class=\"kksr-legend\" style=\"font-size: 19.2px;\">\n            5\/5 - (1 b\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn)    <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o b\u1ebf t\u1eafc, khi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh: N\u00f3i th\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng nghe, nh\u1eafc th\u00ec con l\u1edd \u0111i, la th\u00ec con ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, im l\u1eb7ng th\u00ec con l\u00e0m lo\u1ea1n. 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