{"id":5762,"date":"2026-09-30T17:11:01","date_gmt":"2026-09-30T10:11:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/?p=5762"},"modified":"2026-09-30T17:25:30","modified_gmt":"2026-09-30T10:25:30","slug":"tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/","title":{"rendered":"12 T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i t\u1edbi Tinh th\u1ea7n, Th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i<\/strong> l\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn con c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, t\u1ef1 ti, kh\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung h\u1ecdc, d\u1ec5 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 xa c\u00e1ch cha m\u1eb9. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u00f9ng anh ch\u1ecb ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, n\u0103m nh\u00f3m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng thay cho qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_86 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">N\u1ed9i Dung<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Tac_hai_cua_viec_la_mang_con_cai_doi_voi_su_phat_trien_cua_tre\" >T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#La_mang_con_anh_huong_den_nao_bo_va_kha_nang_hoc_tap\" >La m\u1eafng con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#La_mang_con_anh_huong_den_tam_ly_va_tinh_than\" >La m\u1eafng con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#La_mang_con_anh_huong_den_hanh_vi_va_nhan_cach\" >La m\u1eafng con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#La_mang_con_anh_huong_den_suc_khoe_the_chat\" >La m\u1eafng con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#La_mang_con_lam_ran_nut_moi_quan_he_gia_dinh\" >La m\u1eafng con l\u00e0m r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Giai_phap_giao_duc_tich_cuc_thay_the_viec_la_mang_con\" >Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c thay th\u1ebf vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Nguyen_tac_%E2%80%9Cbinh_tinh_truoc_giao_duc_sau%E2%80%9D_khi_con_mac_loi\" >Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc &#8220;b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c sau&#8221; khi con m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Lang_nghe_va_thau_hieu_nguyen_nhan_phia_sau_hanh_vi_cua_con\" >L\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ph\u00eda sau h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Thiet_lap_ky_luat_ro_rang_thay_cho_la_mang_con\" >Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng thay cho la m\u1eafng con<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Thay_doi_thoi_quen_gia_dinh_de_giam_la_mang_con\" >Thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m la m\u1eafng con<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Dong_hanh_cung_gia_dinh_tai_Minh_Tri_Thanh\" >\u0110\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i Minh Tr\u00ed Th\u00e0nh<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Ket_luan\" >K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Cau_hoi_thuong_gap_ve_viec_la_mang_con\" >C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/tac-hai-cua-viec-la-mang-con-cai\/#Tai_lieu_tham_khao\" >T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tham kh\u1ea3o<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tac_hai_cua_viec_la_mang_con_cai_doi_voi_su_phat_trien_cua_tre\"><\/span>T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i<\/strong> \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb: n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n, h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, c\u00f9ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9. Nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00edch t\u1ee5 d\u1ea7n qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng, nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n ra ngay, n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ee7 quan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nguyen-nhan-khien-cha-me-thuong-xuyen-la-mang-con.png\" alt=\"T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb\" class=\"wp-image-5814\" srcset=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nguyen-nhan-khien-cha-me-thuong-xuyen-la-mang-con.png 800w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nguyen-nhan-khien-cha-me-thuong-xuyen-la-mang-con-533x400.png 533w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nguyen-nhan-khien-cha-me-thuong-xuyen-la-mang-con-768x576.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi thay \u0111\u1ed5i anh ch\u1ecb c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, la m\u1eafng ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o, ch\u00ec chi\u1ebft, g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 &#8220;l\u01b0\u1eddi&#8221;, &#8220;k\u00e9m&#8221;, &#8220;h\u01b0&#8221;, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf nghi\u00eam t\u00fac nh\u01b0ng b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi con, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng lo l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eddi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i sau \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea3ng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f3m t\u1eaft t\u1eebng nh\u00f3m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng, ph\u1ea7n sau s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u00e0o chi ti\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><thead><tr><th>L\u0129nh v\u1ef1c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/th><th>T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i chi ti\u1ebft v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>N\u00e3o b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp<\/td><td>\u2022 \u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o b\u1ed9<br>\u2022 N\u00e3o r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i &#8220;sinh t\u1ed3n&#8221;, lo s\u1ee3 thay v\u00ec h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<br>\u2022 M\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung, gi\u1ea3m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>T\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n<\/td><td>\u2022 C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, lo \u00e2u, bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3<br>\u2022 H\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m: t\u1ef1 ti, r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i<br>\u2022 \u00c1m \u1ea3nh l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, theo con \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>H\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch<\/td><td>\u2022 Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c: l\u1ea7m l\u00ec, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e9 ph\u1ea1t<br>\u2022 L\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi hung h\u0103ng: d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi n\u1eb7ng ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t<\/td><td>\u2022 C\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, k\u00e9m \u0103n, ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng s\u00e2u<br>\u2022 S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe d\u1ec5 gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat khi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/td><td>\u2022 R\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u1edbn<br>\u2022 Con kh\u00e9p m\u00ecnh, b\u1ecbt tai v\u1edbi l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>>>>> Xem th\u00eam: <a href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/3-thoi-diem-khong-nen-mang-con\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">3 Th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean m\u1eafng con, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_mang_con_anh_huong_den_nao_bo_va_kha_nang_hoc_tap\"><\/span>La m\u1eafng con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La m\u1eafng con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean khi\u1ebfn n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u01b0u ti\u00ean ph\u00f2ng th\u1ee7 thay v\u00ec h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, n\u00ean con d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp thu ch\u1eadm h\u01a1n. C\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ba bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n anh ch\u1ecb c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o b\u1ed9.<\/strong> Theo Trung t\u00e2m Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n Tr\u1ebb em thu\u1ed9c \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard, khi h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng b\u1ecb k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t m\u1ea1nh, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb thi\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn xoa d\u1ecbu, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. Nh\u00f3m c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c s\u0129 Martin Teicher t\u1ea1i Tr\u01b0\u1eddng Y Harvard v\u00e0 B\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n McLean c\u0169ng ghi nh\u1eadn \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb t\u1eebng b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng n\u1eb7ng l\u1eddi thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf c\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn truy\u1ec1n th\u1ea7n kinh li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. \u0110\u00e2y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u s\u01a1 b\u1ed9, cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 li\u00ean quan ch\u1ee9 ch\u01b0a kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i &#8220;sinh t\u1ed3n&#8221;.<\/strong> Khi b\u1ecb qu\u00e1t, tim con \u0111\u1eadp nhanh, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1eadt ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c &#8220;l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1eafng n\u1eefa&#8221;. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch hay b\u00e0i c\u00f4 gi\u1ea3ng g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 tr\u00f4i qua.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Gi\u1ea3m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu.<\/strong> Tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng trong lo s\u1ee3 th\u01b0\u1eddng hay qu\u00ean, hi\u1ec3u ch\u1eadm v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng d\u00f9 con kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i t\u1eebng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 l\u1edbp 3, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n c\u00f4 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i l\u00e0 b\u00e9 run gi\u1ecdng d\u00f9 \u1edf nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c. M\u1eb9 b\u00e9 k\u1ec3 \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ecdc sai m\u1ed9t ch\u1eef l\u00e0 b\u1ecb qu\u00e1t v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed5i sang nh\u1eafc nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1edd con t\u1ef1 s\u1eeda, sau \u00edt tu\u1ea7n b\u00e9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00e1m gi\u01a1 tay ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u. C\u0169ng theo Trung t\u00e2m Harvard n\u00f3i tr\u00ean, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n v\u1edbi con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt c\u00e1c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y, n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_mang_con_anh_huong_den_tam_ly_va_tinh_than\"><\/span>La m\u1eafng con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La m\u1eafng con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ti, b\u1edfi tr\u1ebb tin nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec7n ra \u1edf ba \u0111i\u1ec3m sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, lo \u00e2u, bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3.<\/strong> Con hay gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng m\u1ed7i khi cha m\u1eb9 cao gi\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i khi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng vui. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t an n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i sau m\u1ed7i tr\u1eadn la m\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng d\u1ed3n theo ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>H\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m.<\/strong> Khi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nghe &#8220;sao con v\u1ee5ng th\u1ebf&#8221;, &#8220;c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng xong&#8221;, tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n tin m\u00ecnh k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi. Con r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, ng\u1ea1i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 hay n\u00f3i &#8220;con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u&#8221; ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u1eed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u00c1m \u1ea3nh l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/strong> M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i sau nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ea7n, nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng. Nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo con \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn t\u1eebng k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn nh\u1edb nguy\u00ean c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb h\u1ed3i ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng vang l\u00ean m\u1ed7i khi h\u1ecd chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c m\u1edbi. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac hay m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n anh ch\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_mang_con_anh_huong_den_hanh_vi_va_nhan_cach\"><\/span>La m\u1eafng con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ecb la m\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb ngoan h\u01a1n, m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb l\u1ea7m l\u00ec, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc theo c\u00e1ch hung h\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. C\u00f3 hai bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>G\u00e2y ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/strong> Tr\u1ebb t\u1eadp n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e9 ph\u1ea1t, l\u1ea7m l\u00ec ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u theo d\u00f5i g\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ngh\u00ecn gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u1edf \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Pittsburgh v\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Michigan cho th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb 13 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng n\u1eb7ng l\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi sai l\u1ec7ch h\u01a1n trong n\u0103m sau \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00e1nh nhau hay qu\u1eady ph\u00e1 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u00f3m t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n s\u1eeda.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>L\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi hung h\u0103ng.<\/strong> Tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh c\u00e1ch cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u con th\u1ea5y m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi\u1ecdng cao v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u1eb7ng, con s\u1ebd mang c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y v\u00e0o quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, anh ch\u1ecb em, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 l\u1edbp 5 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p, hay n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec3m ki\u1ec3m tra. Khi t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, m\u1eb9 b\u00e9 nh\u1eadn ra con n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i v\u00ec s\u1ee3 c\u1ea3nh b\u1ecb qu\u00e1t tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0, ch\u1ee9 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mu\u1ed1n l\u1eeba m\u1eb9. T\u1eeb khi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ea5p, b\u00e9 d\u1ea7n d\u00e1m \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra cho m\u1eb9 xem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_mang_con_anh_huong_den_suc_khoe_the_chat\"><\/span>La m\u1eafng con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La m\u1eafng con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean khi\u1ebfn c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe d\u1ec5 gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat, v\u00ec c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 n\u1eb1m trong \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t. Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra qua hai \u0111i\u1ec3m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>C\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, k\u00e9m \u0103n, ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng s\u00e2u.<\/strong> Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i con k\u00e9m \u0103n, ng\u1ee7 ch\u1eadp ch\u1eddn, hay \u0111au b\u1ee5ng, \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eb7t khi trong nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ebfng qu\u00e1t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng thay th\u1ebf cho vi\u1ec7c th\u0103m kh\u00e1m.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe d\u1ec5 gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat.<\/strong> Trung t\u00e2m Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n Tr\u1ebb em thu\u1ed9c \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard cho bi\u1ebft c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ecf l\u00e0m t\u0103ng nguy c\u01a1 g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u1ec1 sau.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, anh ch\u1ecb n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i kh\u00e1m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. Song song \u0111\u00f3, gi\u1eef kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed b\u1eefa c\u01a1m v\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111i ng\u1ee7 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng c\u0169ng gi\u00fap c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con d\u1ec5 h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_mang_con_lam_ran_nut_moi_quan_he_gia_dinh\"><\/span>La m\u1eafng con l\u00e0m r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La m\u1eafng con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con, khi\u1ebfn con kh\u00e9p m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111au l\u00f2ng nh\u1ea5t, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf hai \u0111i\u1ec3m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>R\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/strong> Kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n theo t\u1eebng l\u1ea7n con b\u1ecb qu\u00e1t, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra khi con \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn. C\u01a1 ch\u1ebf kh\u00e1 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u: cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi n\u1eb7ng th\u00ec con c\u00e0ng nghe \u00edt \u0111i, cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng n\u00f3i to h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Con b\u1ecbt tai, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n chia s\u1ebb.<\/strong> Tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch &#8220;nghe m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nghe&#8221; \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n gi\u1ea5u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i 14 tu\u1ed5i, ng\u00e0y b\u00e9 th\u00ec k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 chuy\u1ec7n, gi\u1edd ch\u1ecb h\u1ecfi &#8220;h\u00f4m nay \u1edf l\u1edbp th\u1ebf n\u00e0o&#8221;, con ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00e1p &#8220;b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea1&#8221; r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda ph\u00f2ng. Tin t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u1eb9p khi cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecfi \u00edt l\u1ea1i, l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ng\u1ed3i k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng ch\u1ecb v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>>>>> Xem th\u00eam: <a href=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/day-con-khong-quat-mang\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">C\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng gi\u00fap con bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Giai_phap_giao_duc_tich_cuc_thay_the_viec_la_mang_con\"><\/span>Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c thay th\u1ebf vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thay v\u00ec la m\u1eafng, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng b\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c: b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi d\u1ea1y, l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1eb7t k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen chung c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u hay b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c con, con v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e1c \u1edf ch\u1ed7 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p ngay tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf <strong>t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Nguyen_tac_%E2%80%9Cbinh_tinh_truoc_giao_duc_sau%E2%80%9D_khi_con_mac_loi\"><\/span>Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc &#8220;b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c sau&#8221; khi con m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 khi c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn \u0111ang d\u00e2ng, cha m\u1eb9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac xu\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u00fac gi\u1eadn th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i. Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed theo c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>N\u00f3i ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u1edbi con: &#8220;M\u1eb9 \u0111ang n\u00f3ng, m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian r\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nh\u00e9.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u00edt v\u00e0o ch\u1eadm, th\u1edf ra th\u1eadt d\u00e0i v\u00e0i nh\u1ecbp, ho\u1eb7c sang ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c u\u1ed1ng ng\u1ee5m n\u01b0\u1edbc cho d\u1ecbu l\u1ea1i.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quay l\u1ea1i khi \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, ng\u1ed3i ngang t\u1ea7m m\u1eaft con, ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c v\u1eeba x\u1ea3y ra, kh\u00f4ng l\u00f4i chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169 ra.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi, xin l\u1ed7i con th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0m.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t anh b\u1ed1 n\u00f3ng t\u00ednh, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n con l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n l\u00e0 anh l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng. Sau khi th\u1eed h\u1eb9n con &#8220;ba \u0111i r\u1eeda m\u1eb7t n\u0103m ph\u00fat r\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i&#8221;, anh k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng con anh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc theo, bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i &#8220;con c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian&#8221; khi b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n. Cha m\u1eb9 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ea5t cho con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lang_nghe_va_thau_hieu_nguyen_nhan_phia_sau_hanh_vi_cua_con\"><\/span>L\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ph\u00eda sau h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra l\u00fd do \u0111\u1eb1ng sau h\u00e0nh vi sai c\u1ee7a con, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, s\u1ef1 thu m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fa \u00fd. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a con, anh ch\u1ecb h\u00e3y th\u1eed h\u1ecfi: &#8220;Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec l\u00e0m con kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1eady?&#8221; r\u1ed3i ch\u1edd con tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Vi\u1ec7c g\u1ecdi t\u00ean c\u1ea3m x\u00fac gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n &#8220;con b\u1ef1c v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y b\u00fat c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecb t\u1eebng than con trai hay n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i, l\u00fd s\u1ef1 m\u1ed7i khi ch\u1ecb nh\u1eafc h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i. Khi ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5i sang h\u1ecfi nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 m\u1edbi th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ea5p v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. T\u1eeb l\u00fac hi\u1ec3u ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n con n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i, m\u00e0 c\u00f9ng con t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc \u1edf ph\u1ea7n con c\u00f2n y\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/giai-phap-giao-duc-tich-cuc-thay-cho-viec-la-mang-con.png\" alt=\"Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c thay th\u1ebf vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con\" class=\"wp-image-5815\" srcset=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/giai-phap-giao-duc-tich-cuc-thay-cho-viec-la-mang-con.png 800w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/giai-phap-giao-duc-tich-cuc-thay-cho-viec-la-mang-con-533x400.png 533w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">C\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Thiet_lap_ky_luat_ro_rang_thay_cho_la_mang_con\"><\/span>Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng thay cho la m\u1eafng con<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, thay v\u00ec d\u00f9ng \u00e2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e9p con nghe. Khi con bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, con \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng con l\u00fac c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 \u0111ang tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, ch\u1ecdn ba \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed1n quy t\u1eafc quan tr\u1ecdng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00f3i r\u00f5 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 g\u1eafn v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh vi, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u1eaft ti vi tr\u1ec5 th\u00ec h\u00f4m sau gi\u1ea3m m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m ph\u00fat xem.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, tr\u00e1nh h\u00f4m nay nghi\u00eam, mai b\u1ecf qua.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ghi nh\u1eadn c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 khi con l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang, nh\u01b0 &#8220;con t\u1ef1 t\u1eaft ti vi \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd, m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m&#8221;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Thay_doi_thoi_quen_gia_dinh_de_giam_la_mang_con\"><\/span>Thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m la m\u1eafng con<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m la m\u1eafng con b\u1eb1ng ba thay \u0111\u1ed5i: s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng s\u00e1t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u0129nh \u0111\u1ea1c v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n chia kh\u00f4ng gian s\u1ed1ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1n la m\u1eafng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb n\u1ebfp sinh ho\u1ea1t chung, n\u00ean ch\u1ec9nh m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i th\u00f3i quen nh\u1ecf th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00fap kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong nh\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>K\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng s\u00e1t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/strong> H\u00e3y so con h\u00f4m nay v\u1edbi con h\u00f4m qua, thay v\u00ec so v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu trong \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh. K\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u1eeba s\u1ee9c gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 b\u1edbt b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap con c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u1eed l\u1ea1i.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u0129nh \u0111\u1ea1c.<\/strong> D\u00e0nh kho\u1ea3ng m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, h\u1ecfi con v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u vui v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a vui trong ng\u00e0y. Con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe s\u1ebd \u00edt c\u1ea7n g\u00e2y ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi sai.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Kh\u00f4ng gian s\u1ed1ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd.<\/strong> Con c\u00f3 g\u00f3c h\u1ecdc y\u00ean t\u0129nh, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng ngh\u1ec9 ri\u00eang sau gi\u1edd l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng mang to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0o b\u1eefa c\u01a1m. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed9ng d\u1ed3n l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i nh\u00e0 b\u1edbt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dong_hanh_cung_gia_dinh_tai_Minh_Tri_Thanh\"><\/span>\u0110\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i Minh Tr\u00ed Th\u00e0nh<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i Minh Tr\u00ed Th\u00e0nh, n\u01a1i Lanh t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 x\u00e2y n\u1ec1 n\u1ebfp m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu anh ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 <strong>t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i<\/strong> v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0i b\u1ea3n h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u con, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u01a1i anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/dong-hanh-cung-gia-dinh-giao-duc-tich-cuc-con-tre.png\" alt=\"\u0110\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i Minh Tr\u00ed Th\u00e0nh\" class=\"wp-image-5816\" srcset=\"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/dong-hanh-cung-gia-dinh-giao-duc-tich-cuc-con-tre.png 800w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/dong-hanh-cung-gia-dinh-giao-duc-tich-cuc-con-tre-533x400.png 533w, https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/dong-hanh-cung-gia-dinh-giao-duc-tich-cuc-con-tre-768x576.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">C\u00f4 Lanh lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng cha m\u1eb9 tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con kh\u00e1c nhau, n\u00ean anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafn tin cho Minh Tr\u00ed Th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam l\u00e0 con thay \u0111\u1ed5i, ch\u1ec9 mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng anh ch\u1ecb t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u1eeb c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 n\u01a1i con th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ket_luan\"><\/span>K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i<\/strong> \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con th\u00ec lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Khi cha m\u1eb9 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc, l\u1eafng nghe con, \u0111\u1eb7t quy t\u1eafc r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng, con s\u1ebd nghe l\u1eddi v\u00ec hi\u1ec3u ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec s\u1ee3. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y nh\u00edch m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cau_hoi_thuong_gap_ve_viec_la_mang_con\"><\/span>C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng con c\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ra sao \u1edf tr\u1ebb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti, r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, ng\u1ea1i th\u1eed vi\u1ec7c m\u1edbi v\u00e0 hay n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ch\u00ea b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e9 l\u1ea7m l\u00ec, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e9 b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t, s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c k\u00e9m \u0103n, ng\u1ee7 ch\u1eadp ch\u1eddn hay \u0111au b\u1ee5ng, \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eb7t. N\u1ebfu anh ch\u1ecb th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng l\u00fac v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, h\u00e3y tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con v\u00e0 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc g\u1eb7p chuy\u00ean gia \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng l\u1ee1 la con m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00ec c\u00f3 sao kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i, xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ch\u00ednh l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i \u1ea5y d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 s\u1eeda sai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ec sao con b\u1ecb la nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec con th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo v\u00ec s\u1ee3 trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ee9 ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Khi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 qua \u0111i, h\u00e0nh vi c\u0169 quay l\u1ea1i, c\u00f2n cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c la m\u1eafng. Mu\u1ed1n con nghe l\u1eddi b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng, anh ch\u1ecb c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn, \u0111\u1eb7t quy t\u1eafc r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>L\u1ee1 la m\u1eafng con r\u1ed3i, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec ngay sau \u0111\u00f3?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anh ch\u1ecb h\u00e3y ch\u1edd cho c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n con, n\u00f3i r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i n\u1eb7ng l\u1eddi. Sau \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mong con thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. C\u00e1ch n\u00e0y gi\u00fap con th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng la th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao con bi\u1ebft s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 nghe l\u1eddi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con nghe l\u1eddi v\u00ec hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tin cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3. Khi quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i r\u00f5 t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc, con bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1ch n\u00e0y v\u1eeba gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec1 n\u1ebfp, v\u1eeba gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Cha m\u1eb9 hay n\u00f3ng t\u00ednh th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf khi con l\u00e0m sai?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng th\u00f3i quen d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0i nh\u1ecbp th\u1edf, ho\u1eb7c r\u1eddi sang ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con. Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 c\u00e1u, nh\u01b0 l\u00fac \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 m\u1ec7t hay khi v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, c\u0169ng gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n s\u1edbm h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 t\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tai_lieu_tham_khao\"><\/span>T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tham kh\u1ea3o<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Center on the Developing Child, Harvard University. Targeting Toxic Stress in Children (ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Jack P. Shonkoff). <a href=\"https:\/\/developingchild.harvard.edu\/in-the-news\/targeting-toxic-stress-in-children\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">https:\/\/developingchild.harvard.edu\/in-the-news\/targeting-toxic-stress-in-children\/<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Harvard Medical School. Cutting words may scar young brains. <a href=\"https:\/\/hms.harvard.edu\/news\/cutting-words-may-scar-young-brains\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">https:\/\/hms.harvard.edu\/news\/cutting-words-may-scar-young-brains<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Society for Research in Child Development (2013). 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