{"id":3715,"date":"2026-05-30T13:52:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-30T06:52:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/?p=3715"},"modified":"2026-06-05T15:35:24","modified_gmt":"2026-06-05T08:35:24","slug":"ap-luc-hoc-tap-tu-nhung-ky-vong-cua-cha-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/ap-luc-hoc-tap-tu-nhung-ky-vong-cua-cha-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Vnexpress.net-\u00c1p l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9"},"content":{"rendered":"

K\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111ang v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau “h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 thi, h\u1ecdc v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1” thay v\u00ec y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ecb \u0110\u1ed3ng Th\u1ecb Lan (44 tu\u1ed5i), m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean t\u1ea1i B\u1eafc Ninh, lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n con ngoan ngo\u00e3n, h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi. Ch\u1ecb t\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t cao v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i khi con h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y. B\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0o k\u1ef3 thi tuy\u1ec3n sinh l\u1edbp 10.<\/p>\n

Do \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u0111i\u1ec3m thi c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i ch\u1ecb th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 k\u00e9m xa k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. Con v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed7 l\u1edbp 10 nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng cao, ch\u1ecb Lan \u0111\u00e3 bu\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng con s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch xa l\u00e1nh m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecb Lan, c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb B\u00f9i Th\u1ecb D\u01b0\u01a1ng (44 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i California, M\u1ef9) c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t c\u1eaft ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00ean vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n n\u01a1i x\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ecb D\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u00e1nh tr\u00ean vai \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng kh\u00e1t khao con m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. Ch\u1ecb lu\u00f4n nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd s\u00e1t sao vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a con. Ch\u1ecb c\u1ea5m con ch\u01a1i nh\u1eefng m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao con th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e9p con theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

“Khi con l\u00e0m To\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 8 \u0111i\u1ec3m, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n con ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 9, 10. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd ghi nh\u1eadn n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con”, ch\u1ecb k\u1ec3. V\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb v\u00e0 con d\u1ea7n m\u1ea5t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. Con s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

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S\u1ef1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 khi\u1ebfn con s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng.\u00a0\u1ea2nh:\u00a0Minh Tr\u00ed Th\u00e0nh<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

S\u1ef1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o s\u00e2u trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd con tr\u1ebb. Theo B\u00e1o c\u00e1o m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a WHO ch\u00e2u \u00c2u v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u H\u00e0nh vi S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe \u1edf tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc (HBSC) v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2024, thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 11, 13 v\u00e0 15 tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp ch\u00e2u \u00c2u, Trung \u00c1 v\u00e0 Canada \u0111ang nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Ch\u1ec9 68% trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 cho bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee9c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cao t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, gi\u1ea3m \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng gia t\u0103ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf c\u00e1c b\u00e9 g\u00e1i. Theo c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, nh\u1eefng xu h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 suy gi\u1ea3m s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u00f3m l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng em s\u1ed1ng trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kinh t\u1ebf – x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam, kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a B\u1ed9 Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0110\u00e0o t\u1ea1o ch\u1ec9 ra c\u00f3 t\u1edbi 67% h\u1ecdc sinh trung h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi quan tr\u1ecdng; trong \u0111\u00f3, 25% c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb nh\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn trung b\u00ecnh. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n \u1edf tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee9c. Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o nh\u01b0: m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, thu m\u00ecnh… ho\u1eb7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n khi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ea1c s\u0129 T\u00e2m l\u00fd Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ecb Lanh, C\u00f4ng ty C\u1ed5 ph\u1ea7n H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Minh Tr\u00ed Th\u00e0nh, cho r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 s\u1ebd m\u1edf ra nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u00f4ng hoa, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng. Khi tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 “\u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao cho cha m\u1eb9 vui”, tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang d\u00f9ng tr\u00ed nh\u1edb ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n. Tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t khi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

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Th\u1ea1c s\u0129 T\u00e2m l\u00fd Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ecb Lanh t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn – \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con. \u1ea2nh:\u00a0NVCC<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn con lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng trong \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1ee7i th\u00e2n, ch\u1ecb Lan h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 con. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i tu\u1ed5i teen t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed7 v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng “ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng b\u0103ng gi\u00e1” c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ecb D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 “\u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i” khi\u1ebfn con s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Ch\u1ecb quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con. Ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u1ea3ng \u0111i\u1ec3m. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ecb khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1eadn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a con, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, cho ph\u00e9p con ch\u01a1i nh\u1eefng m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

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K\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111ang v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau “h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 thi, h\u1ecdc v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1” thay v\u00ec y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. Ch\u1ecb \u0110\u1ed3ng Th\u1ecb Lan (44 tu\u1ed5i), m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean t\u1ea1i B\u1eafc Ninh, lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n con ngoan ngo\u00e3n, h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi. Ch\u1ecb t\u1eebng […]\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3716,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[76],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3715","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-chia-se-kinh-nghiem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3715","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3715"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3721,"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3715\/revisions\/3721"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}