{"id":1498,"date":"2023-06-27T17:03:48","date_gmt":"2023-06-27T10:03:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/?p=1498"},"modified":"2026-02-05T14:44:26","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T07:44:26","slug":"con-ap-luc-khi-cha-me-gan-hao-quang-tren-mang-xa-hoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/minhtrithanh.com\/tin-tuc\/con-ap-luc-khi-cha-me-gan-hao-quang-tren-mang-xa-hoi\/","title":{"rendered":"Vtcnews.vn – Con \u00e1p l\u1ef1c khi cha m\u1eb9 ‘g\u1eafn h\u00e0o quang’ tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i"},"content":{"rendered":"

(VTC News) – Nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ghi nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a con, l\u1ea5y con l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111i khoe v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ecb Ho\u00e0i Thu (H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i) c\u00f3 con g\u00e1i l\u1edbn n\u0103m nay l\u00ean l\u1edbp 9. Con g\u00e1i ch\u1ecb h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi, th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c thi. T\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 con n\u00ean m\u1ea5y n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u1ecb hay khoe gi\u1ea5y khen, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch thi c\u1eed c\u1ee7a con l\u00ean Facebook c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o ch\u00fac m\u1eebng, khen ng\u1ee3i: \u201cCon g\u00e1i m\u1eb9 Thu gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1\u201d, \u201cNg\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 qu\u00e1 con g\u00e1i \u01a1i\u201d, \u201c\u0110\u00fang chu\u1ea9n \u201ccon nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta\u201d r\u1ed3i m\u1eb9 Thu \u1ea1\u201d\u2026<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t n\u0103m tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u1ecb Thu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n khoe con tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng n\u1eefa. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n con ch\u1ecb tham gia cu\u1ed9c thi ti\u1ebfng Anh, ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eb7t nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 con ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i. Sau \u0111\u00f3, con ch\u1ecb bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, tr\u1ea7m l\u1eb7ng, th\u01b0\u1eddng hay \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong ph\u00f2ng. Khi ch\u1ecb Thu g\u1eb7ng h\u1ecfi th\u00ec con g\u00e1i \u00f2a l\u00ean kh\u00f3c n\u1ee9c n\u1edf: \u201cCon xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng\u201d.<\/p>\n

\"Con
Tr\u1ebb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 khoe th\u00e0nh t\u00edch tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng. (\u1ea2nh minh h\u1ecda)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00eam v\u1edbi con, ch\u1ecb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean khoe tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng, con \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch t\u1ed1t. L\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1ee3t gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u201cKhi \u0111\u0103ng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a con l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd l\u1ea1i t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn cho con \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady\u201d,<\/em>\u00a0ch\u1ecb n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ecb Thu, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng hay ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh b\u1ea3ng \u0111i\u1ec3m, gi\u1ea5y khen, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch thi c\u1eed c\u1ee7a con r\u1ed3i \u0111\u0103ng l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng. V\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u01b0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac n\u0103m h\u1ecdc, bi\u1ebft k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 thi v\u00e0 c\u1ea5p 3, thi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p THPT\u2026 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m \u1ea3nh b\u1ea3ng \u0111i\u1ec3m, gi\u1ea5y khen \u201cph\u1ee7 s\u00f3ng\u201d tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ph\u00eda d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u00e0i \u0111\u0103ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn c\u00f3 c\u00e1nh khen con gi\u1ecfi, khen b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 khoe con hay khoe m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n

Theo Th.S Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ecb Lanh chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd, nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 khoe th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a con l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean vai con tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

Khoe con v\u00ec con h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao, \u0111\u1ed7 tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i\u1ec3m\u2026 t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u201cng\u1ea7m\u201d truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ebfn con th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 y\u00eau con v\u00ec con \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"Con
Chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ecb Lanh<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, con s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. V\u00ec c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, qu\u00ean \u0111i m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n g\u00ec. Con s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho ch\u00ednh con m\u00e0 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc v\u00ec cha m\u1eb9. Con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh con n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ebfn khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, con s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u00ean ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong t\u01b0 duy con m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ecfi, ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1t, ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n con nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. Cha m\u1eb9 khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ghi nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a con. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea5y con l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i khoe v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129, \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

Theo chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ecb Lanh, nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n g\u00ec, mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, lo s\u1ee3 khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t ra nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n lo \u00e2u, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

N\u1eef chuy\u00ean gia cho r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 khoe tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u201ckhoe con nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khoe m\u00ecnh\u201d, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, d\u1eabn d\u1eaft, ghi nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c trong c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u1eafng nghe, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a con, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh con, \u0111\u1ec3 con nh\u1eadn ra t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc, h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh con ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc v\u00ec ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

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